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Kids get into it the messy fun of the Club Med Cancun color party on the beach. Photo by Cheryl Murfin

By Cheryl Murfin

Published August 2023

Updated August 4, 2023

According to several sources, the average cost per person for a one-week vacation in the U.S. is $1,000-$2,000. For a family of four, you’re looking at spending around $4,000 to $8,000 when all the transport expenses, food, lodging, and activities are tallied up. Go international, and the costs can soar to upwards of $10,000.

And then there’s the planning, the reserving, the booking, and the large amount of time that goes into investigating what to do on a grand escape. When my kids were growing up, those tasks took hours, those hours were steeped in stress, and no matter how much we tried, we always spent far more than we budgeted.

We were not unusual: one 2022 study found that 33 percent of Americans overspent on their vacations.

The morning beach at Club Med Cancun. By 10 AM the chairs are filled with families. Photo by Cheryl Murfin

If someone had told me when my kids were young, “Try an all-inclusive resort for a week,” I would have laughed out loud. In my mind, the words “all-inclusive” and “resort” meant:

Well. Shut me up.

This year my partner talked me into going to Club Med’s all-inclusive resort in Cancun, Mexico. He’s been telling me for years how fun and utterly relaxing all-inclusive are. I’ve been telling him for years, “No, thank you.” He caught me in a weak moment.

That I would return from our week in Cancun as a cheerleader for all-inclusive family resorts cracks my whole family up.

Why the conversion? Club Med Cancun is (as are many other all-inclusive resorts) designed for families. And all-inclusive means just that. Everything essential is included in the price — all food, rooms, flights, airport pick-up, kid and adult beverages, shows, and other entertainment and in-sport activities.

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While the parents around me enjoyed the time to themselves (snorkeling, sailing, yoga, Fitness Bootcamping, volleyball, kayaking, tennis-playing, pickleball, beach lounging, etc.), their kids aged 4 to 10 spent hours safely playing under the supervision of Uber enthusiastic staff in the Mini Club Med program. Tweens and teens had their own activity program and space, which allowed them to meet, connect and move around the resort within a single cloud of Axe deodorant. Everywhere I looked, no matter when I looked, the bigs and the littles were having a blast.

Kids enjoys the nightly shows at Club Med. Photo by Cheryl Murfin

Strangely, I didn’t see a single kid melt down the entire week, although I know they must have happened. Rather than hoity-toity, the feeling was down-to-earth. If things got broken, staff swept in with a smile. And, while vacationing in a resort is definitely not the same thing as seeing the authentic culture of a country, family-friendly excursions (at an added cost) delivered families to a sea turtle sanctuary, the world wonder of Chichen Itza, open air and underground river cenotes, and other sites beyond the resort walls.

Danielle Cumings and her family have gone on several all-inclusive vacations in the last 15 years – including Club Med Cancun. “We’re a very active family,” she said. “We enjoy the fact that we can be active together or go our own ways.”

I went snorkeling with a grandmother enjoying a reunion with her kids and grandkids.

“This is a wonderful place,” she said. “I get to spend quality time with each family member; we gather together for meals and share stories.”

When I asked parents their top reasons for choosing an all-inclusive resort vacation, it came down to four things: Cost, food, activities, and autonomy.

A side trip to Chichen Itza ruins is a great history lesson. Photo by Cheryl Murfin

A July cost search for Club Med’s Cancun resort put the price for a family of four at just over $8,000. Club Med and other resorts often do sales and discounts that may lower costs.

One can pull together a week-long vacation for four in another country (including flights, food, activities, alcohol, supervised kid programs, shows, etc.) for under $8,000. Still, a lot of us would be hard-pressed to do it. I cost out flights, transportation, daily snorkeling, sailing, archery, circus school, and other activities, three meals a day and all snacks, adult beverages, accommodations, and entertainment (show, acrobats, musical artists) and came in at just over $10,000.

Not to mention, kids under six stay free at Club Med (added cost for Mini Club Med program). Kids go free at other all-inclusive as well.

I don’t know about you, but figuring out the food everyone would eat on vacation when my kids were young was a form of living hell. At Club Med, every family at every table seemed to glow with a gustatorily-triggered inner light. Why? Because the main eatery is a massive buffet, often with dishes from all around the world and all fresh and beautifully prepared. They had a baby-feeding station with pureed foods. Kid favorites like mac and cheese were always available for the pickiest, least adventurous eaters. Then there was the sea of desserts. Cancun Club Med has two other restaurants for plated dinner experiences. I saw a lot of parents saving those for themselves and using the buffet for kids.

The staff Club Med Cancun, an all-inclusive family resort, are an energetic crew. Photo by Cheryl Murfin

Family vacations are about doing. But any single activity can set a family vacation budget back. For example, the average cost of snorkeling, including equipment, is between $40 and $110. For a family of four that wants to snorkel three times during their vacation week, that would cost between $480 and $1,320. At Club Med, you can do as many activities as you want, as many times as you wish. If your kid loves snorkeling in Cancun’s blue, fish-filled waters, she could snort several times a day every day.

Beyond sporting activities, there’s a whole lot of community-building fun throughout any resort day. The week was filled with family-oriented variety shows, beachside BBQs, and color-themed parties. There were toasts and celebrations around every corner, and the staff did a great job of connecting guests, especially kids. During the festival of colors party on the beach, guests big and small were given powdered pigment to toss in the air — much like Holi celebrations – before rushing into the ocean en masse. Throughout the week, there was enough heart-pounding music to wake the dead, and dancing was encouraged all day, every day. Thankfully rooms were well-padded. Once the door was closed, we heard nothing – critical for young kids needing naps or sleep.

Anna, a mother of three, summed it up: “My kids are safe; I can sit here and sip a mai tai at noon, take a nap, and not worry about them. My husband and I can spend time together, which is hard with three kids. Our daughter (15) can ignore us and be cool with other kids, then join us at dinner and be glad to be there.” Enough said.

I asked the parents around me in Cancun for tips on taking kids to an all-inclusive resort. Here’s what they offered: